Preheat the oven to 175 degrees C. Grease 12 cupcake molds and line with paper liners.
Heat 1 tbsp butter in a pan and toss in the diced pears. Cook for 3-4 minutes, add the raisins and the nuts and then pour in the honey. Cook on low heat for 5 minutes.
Sprinkle the cinnamon and nutmeg and cook further for 1-2 minutes till the mixture is thoroughly coated with syrupy honey and spices and all the water from the pears has dried up. Set aside to cool.
In a bowl, combine the flours with salt and soda bicarbonate.
In a larger bowl, cream the butter and brown sugar. Add the vanilla extract and eggs and beat further till light and frothy.
Using a spatula, gently fold in the flour mixture until just combined. Take care not to overmix.
Finally, mix in the cooked fruits and nuts. Add the milk to loosen the batter a little if it appears too thick.
Spoon the cake batter evenly into the prepared molds and bake for 20 minutes or until a skewer inserted into the cupcakes comes out clean.
Cool the cupcakes on a wire rack and store in an airtight box.